Question 1

Do you work with all kinds of relationships?

Accepted Answer

I absolutely work with all kinds of relationships — married, partnered, dating, gay, straight, monogamous, non-monogamous. I have a humanist approach, meaning I don't specialize in any one of those areas. In my experience, my approach applies to any and all humans. If you're looking for a specialist in one of those areas, I might not be the right fit for you.

Question 2

Is this covered by insurance?

Accepted Answer

I am currently an out-of-network provider and do not directly accept insurance. However, if you have a PPO, I work with Mentaya, who will automatically file out-of-network claims for you so you can avoid the hassle and overwhelm of this, and help you potentially get partial reimbursement for my services.

Question 3

Do I have to be in California?

Accepted Answer

Yes. California state law requires that I only provide clinical therapy to residents of the state. I see clients online anywhere in California, via secure video.

Question 4

What if only one of us wants to do this?

Accepted Answer

Individual therapy can still create real change in your relationship. When one person shifts how they show up, the dynamic shifts too.

Question 5

How long does it take to see results?

Accepted Answer

Many couples notice shifts after even the first session, and at least within the first 4-8 sessions. Depending on how long the challenges have remained unaddressed and how deeply you're interested and willing to work on healing the relationship, it can take anywhere from six months to multiple years of consistent effort. But in the end, this is completely up to you. I follow your lead and support you in whatever way you need.

Question 6

Are sessions confidential?

Accepted Answer

Yes. Therapy sessions are protected by clinical confidentiality with the standard legal exceptions.

Question 7

Do you offer sliding scale?

Accepted Answer

I hold a small number of reduced-fee slots in my practice. Please ask during your consultation if cost is a barrier.

Question 8

What should I expect in a free consultation?

Accepted Answer

A 15–20 minute video call where we get to know each other a little, you can share what's bringing you here, and you can ask any questions about how I work and whether we'd be a fit.

Question 9

Do you work with issues around sex and intimacy specifically?

Accepted Answer

Yes — sex and intimacy are a core part of my work. We can address mismatched desire, intimacy avoidance, sexual disconnection, and rebuilding erotic connection.

Question 10

What if we've tried couples therapy before and it didn't work?

Accepted Answer

You're not alone. Often previous therapy didn't go deep enough, or didn't address the underlying patterns. My approach is different — we go beneath the content of the fights to the dynamics keeping them alive.

Question 11

How do I book?

Accepted Answer

Click any 'Book a Free 20-Minute Consultation' button or visit the contact page. You'll fill out a short form and I'll be in touch to schedule your free consultation.

Question 12

What is your cancellation policy?

Accepted Answer

My cancellation policy is 24 hours.

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