THERAPY FOR COUPLES
Because no one should feel alone in their relationship.
When you’re stuck in the same fights, when every conversation feels like it ends in misunderstanding, when you feel more like roommates than partners — it’s easy to lose hope. But change is absolutely possible.
Couples therapy is not about deciding who’s right or wrong. It’s about creating a safe space where both of you can be seen, understood, and guided back to connection.
What Couples Therapy Can Help With:
Breaking the cycle of recurring fights
Learning to manage triggers without spiraling into conflict
Rebuilding intimacy, trust, and friendship
Feeling heard and understood by your partner
Shifting from disconnection to closeness
“Fanshen has brought a level of depth, patience, and wisdom to our couples counseling that has been both unique in our experience and invaluable in the work we’ve been able to do.”
What To Expect
In our sessions, you can expect:
A safe space where nothing is too big, messy, or uncomfortable to bring
Tools to regulate emotions so conversations don’t get hijacked by triggers
Practical ways to shift communication so you both feel truly heard
Small but powerful moments of reconnection — sometimes as soon as the first session
Why Couples Choose This Work
Couples often come to me when they’re feeling:
Alone, even when they’re together
Tired of the same unresolved fight
Afraid the relationship won’t last without change
Unsure how to rebuild closeness
And they leave our work with:
More self-awareness and clarity
Confidence in their ability to navigate conflict
A deeper sense of intimacy and safety with each other
Renewed hope in the future of their relationship
“Fanshen is calm, patient, understanding, and deeply empathetic while still challenging and pushing back whenever needed. She is flexible and adaptable to the needs of the relationship and conversation, but creates enough structure to ensure continued progress week to week.”
An Invitation
Your relationship doesn’t have to feel like this forever.
According to a 2021 study, most couples wait an average of 2.68 years after serious problems arise before seeking professional help.
The sooner you begin, the sooner things can shift.
“We were unsure if we would make it another year married. Our faith and relationship with God is a core part of who we are. Couples therapy was one of our last hopes in repairing our marriage and we are so happy that we stepped out of our comfort zone and found Fanshen and started the process of healing. Although she is not a Christian therapist, she is an incredibly caring therapist. Through all of the sessions we've had with Fanshen - love, understanding, forgiveness, & growth flourished. She made the environment very easy to be open and work through our issues and also gave us so many tools in our marriage that we now implement in our every day conversations that help us to continue growing in our communication with one another.”
~Former Couple