From Alone Together… to Truly Together Again.

Online relationship therapy & coaching — where change begins and connection grows.

You have said or felt this

“I can’t do this anymore.”

“We have the same fight over and over again.”

“It feels like I’ll never be understood.”

“What if we separate? What if I’m really alone?”

“Even when we’re together, I feel completely alone in this relationship.”

If this sounds like your relationship, you are not alone — and it doesn’t have to stay this way.

💡 Your partner doesn’t want to start therapy? No worries. Come as an individual and we can do similar work that often has a surprisingly powerful impact on your relationship.

That first breath of relief — it’s closer than you think.

Couples who work with me often feel a shift in our very first session.

The heaviness softens, hope returns, and for the first time in a long time, it feels possible to reconnect.

Over time, that relief deepens into trust, intimacy, and a stronger bond.

What Makes This Work Different?

I don’t believe in endless years of therapy without change. My approach is intuitive, heart-centered, and grounded in trust — trust that you can shift, even when the way forward feels impossible.

In work with me, we will:

  • Begin to feel like and see the real YOU underneath the hurt.

  • Uncover the real roots beneath conflict and triggers

  • Learn to regulate emotions and respond instead of react

  • Rebuild connection, intimacy, and trust

  • Learn to say what you deeply feel to your partner without fear of being misunderstood

Hi, I’m Fanshen

I’m a licensed therapist and relationship coach in California. Couples come to me feeling stuck, unseen, or on the brink of giving up. I hold a safe, intuitive space for even the hardest conversations and guide my clients back to connection, one breakthrough at a time.

I believe in your capacity to change — even when you can’t see the path yet. Together, we’ll find it.

Through our work together, you can begin to express yourselves compassionately and listen deeply to one another.

No one should feel alone in their relationship. Let’s find your way back to each other.

Choose Your Path: Therapy or Coaching

Therapy

  • Weekly sessions

  • Open-ended, no set timeline

  • Builds insight at a natural pace

  • Flexible and ongoing

  • Gentle growth

  • Must be currently living California

Coaching

  • More frequent sessions

  • Intensive 12-week program

  • Creates fast, focused breakthroughs

  • Structured and time-limited

  • Bold reset

  • Can live anywhere in the world to access